Are you looking at me?
Next time you and your partner are getting frisky slowly move them over to the mirror so that you can both get a good view. When you use a mirror you’ll have the added bonus of seeing them in person and then the other side of them from the mirror, so it will be even more stimulating than you could possibly imagine. Missionary, doggy, reverse cow girl or wheelbarrow are just some of the positions this will work well for.Talk dirty
Some people are visual whereas others like a little bit of dirty talk and get turned on by their partner describing their fantasy to them. As you and your partner experiment with dirty talk more and more you’ll get to know what turns them on and gets them in the mood. At first you may be uncomfortable verbalising your fantasy or what you’re doing to them but as you get more familiar with dirty talk it will start to feel natural and you could find yourself getting a lot of pleasure out of it as well. If you don’t know where to start, then just say what you’re doing to them, what they’re doing to you, what you like and what you would like them to do to you. Make it as personal as possible so they feel the full force of dirty talk.Send a random picture or text
While some couples like to plan their sexting or picture messages, you could send an impromptu message to your partner about what you want to do to them when they get home. If you’re feeling really racy you could take a picture or even send them a video of yourself pleasuring yourself. Then when they get home they are sure to jump your bones and you’ll enjoy a night of passion.Experiment with temperature
Some people are turned on by temperature variations so you can play with ice cubes or use some of our scented candles, which turn into hot oil when melted and can be used to massage them. Sensation will wake up their senses. You can use the message oil for a naked massage. With them naked temperatures are sure to rise and before you know it you’ll be getting down and dirty with each other.Use a blindfold
The great thing about blindfolds is that your other senses will be heightened because you can’t see, so when they touch you, you will feel it more than if you had all of your senses. If you want to be the one dominating them then you can blindfold them and do whatever they want you to. Just discuss a safe word before you start using blindfolds.These are just some of the things you can do to add more excitement to the bedroom. Of course there are so many more such as spanking, playing with sex toys and trying positions you’ve never tried before.